Christy
不知道是在什么時(shí)候開始聽說有“丁克”這么一個(gè)詞的,那時(shí)候也不是很在意。最近卻突然想要了解它,便查了些資料,發(fā)現(xiàn)它大有奧秘,學(xué)問還挺多,光丁克的派生詞匯就有很多,如白丁、丁克ing、丁克ed、丁寵以及鐵丁等如此各種。然后就開始很想一探“丁克一族”的究竟,他們是如何成為的丁克?他們究竟是怎么生活的呢……于是就有了本期的主題。丁克與否,家還是家,那個(gè)最溫暖、讓你可以安心休憩的港灣。
A family starts with only two and if theyre lucky and work can create something magical called a family.
I dont know when it started,
Or how it all began.
But the two created a family,
To love, honor, and obey each other.
And show respect for others.
A support filled with love,
Someone on who to depend.
How many weve become,
And all because of family.
We have a lot to be thankful for—
The memories through the years,
The many times together,
Full of laughter, full of tears.
——Michelle A. Moran
結(jié)婚后無論是選擇生兒育女還是選擇做丁克,都要先過好自己的生活,連自己都照顧不好還拿什么去照顧別人呢,正如Babycenter.com網(wǎng)站的出資人卡門·王-烏爾里克(Carmen Wang-Ulrich)所說,If you dont take care of yourself, you end up being a burden on others。