Juno
新學(xué)期開始了,你是不是興奮中夾雜著緊張。面對班.上的新同學(xué),或者社團(tuán)的新朋友時,第一步都是做自我介紹。如何得體地介紹自己呢?
Who can forget their first day of school or club? Students come into the classroomwondering who their classmates or partners will be for the year. What do you say whenyou meet someone new? Introduce yourself of course! Introducing yourself to thosestudents or partners is a big part of that first day. That initial impression is importantin setting the tone for the year. Here are some tips for introducing yourself.
開學(xué)或加入社團(tuán)的第一天總是令人難忘。當(dāng)我們踏入教室時,我們會好奇在接下來的學(xué)年中我們會與誰成為同學(xué)或搭檔。當(dāng)你遇到新同學(xué)或新搭檔時你會說什么?當(dāng)然是自我介紹了!第一天,自我介紹是重中之重,因?yàn)榈谝挥∠髮ξ覀冊O(shè)下一學(xué)年的基調(diào)是很重要的。以下是我們在做自我介紹時的一些小技巧。
1) initial[??n??(?)l] adj.最初的;開始的2) tone [t??n]n.調(diào)子;基調(diào)
Make eye contact進(jìn)行眼神交流
Eye contact shows that you are engagedin the 3linteraction. Eye contact is one way toconnect with another human and show that theother person has your attention. When you makeeye contact, it shows that you are open andengaged. If you're not comfortable looking straightinto someone's eyes, stare at the point betweenthe eyebrows; she won't notice the difference. Ifyou're in a group setting, make 4periodic eyecontact with those around you.
3) interaction[??nt?r??k?(?)n]n.交流;互動
4) periodic [?p??ri??d?k]adj.定期的
眼神交流表明你正在參與交流。眼神交流是與對方溝通并表明你很專注的一種方式。當(dāng)你進(jìn)行眼神交流時,表明你是開放和參與的態(tài)度。如果你直視別人的眼睛感到不舒服,可以盯著眉毛區(qū)域,對方不會注意到區(qū)別的。如果你處于小組互動中,請與周圍的人進(jìn)行眼神交流。
Smile微笑
It is important to keep a 5genuine, brightsmile when you meet a new person. If you'refeeling tense, your smile is going to look alittle forced. Take a deep breath and relax themuscles in your face before you start smiling. It might help to close your eyes quickly and thenopen them back up.
5) genuine ['d?enju?n]adj.真誠的
當(dāng)你遇到一個新人時,保持-一個真誠、燦爛的微笑是很重要的。如果你感到緊張,你的笑容看起來會有點(diǎn)勉強(qiáng)。深呼吸,放松臉上的肌肉,然后再開始微笑??焖匍]上眼睛,然后重新睜開眼睛也能有所幫助。
Use appropriate body language運(yùn)用適當(dāng)?shù)闹w語言
Your body language should communicate that you are confident and at ease. Stand with your head high and your back straight, being careful not to 6)slouch. You can mirror the body language of people around you, and mirror the pace of speech and tone of speech of those near you to build 7)rapport easier.
你的肢體語言應(yīng)該傳達(dá)你的自信和自在。抬頭挺胸,注意不要低頭垂肩、無精打釆。你可以與周圍人的肢體語言、說話節(jié)奏和語氣相似,這樣更容易建立融洽的關(guān)系。
6)slouch v,無精打釆地站或坐、走
7)rapport adj.融洽的
Exchange names 交換名字
If the introduction is formal, say "Hello, I'm [first name][last name].” If ifs informal, say "Hi, I'm [first name].” Immediately after you've stated your name, ask for the other person's name by saying "What's your name?” in a pleasant tone. When you learn the other person's name, repeat it by saying "It's a pleasure to meet you, Pedro” or "Nice to meet you, Caroline”. Because repeating the person's name will help you remember it, and give the introduction a more personal 8)touch.
如果是正式介紹,你可以說:“你好,我是xxx(姓+名)?!比绻欠钦降?,你可以說“嗨,我是XXX (名字)?!闭f出自己的名字后,立即用親切的語氣詢問對方的名字:“你叫什么名字?”當(dāng)你得知對方的名字時,你可以重復(fù)一遍,說:“很高興見到你,佩德羅”或“很高興見到你,卡羅琳"。因?yàn)橹貜?fù)他人的名字將幫助你記住它,并給雙方帶來更親密的感覺。
Ask questions 提問
It's important to show interest in the other person. Ask where he or she is from, when his or her birthday is and what he or she loves to do. Show that you are engaged and interested in what he or she has to say. You may tell a little bit of your background in order to engage conversation and share about yourself. Telling someone what you do on weekend or that you love rock climbing is appropriate and may lead to more conversation topics. Don't take the opportunity to talk only about yourself. You will come across as 9)selfish or uninteresting.
對對方表現(xiàn)出興趣很重要。問他/她來自哪里,他/她什么時候生日,他/她喜歡做什么,這樣可以表明你對他/她要說的話很投入和感興趣。你可以說一些關(guān)于自己的事,以便參與談話和分享信息。告訴別人你周末做什么或你喜歡攀巖,這樣的分享是適當(dāng)?shù)?,并能帶來更多的談話話題。但千萬不要只談?wù)撟约?,這樣你會被視為自私的或?qū)λ瞬桓信d趣。
Close the conversation 結(jié)束對話
After you've met someone for the first time, you should end the conversation by restating that you enjoyed meeting. If the interaction was formal, say something like "Mr. Harold, I'm delighted to have met you. I hope we can talk again soon." If your conversation was informal, you can say "It was great meeting you, Harold. Hope to see you around."
第一次遇到別人,你應(yīng)該重申你喜歡這次見面來結(jié)束談話。如果你們的交流是正式的,你可以說:“哈羅德先生,我很高興見到你,希望我們能很快再見面?!比绻銈兊慕涣魇欠钦降模憧梢哉f:“很高興見到你,哈羅德。希望下次再見。”